I don’t know about you, but for me, having a sexy conversation or flirting back and forth via text-messaging is a LOT of fun.
You can be ambiguous, you can be playful, you can say things that you might not feel comfortable saying face to face… it can lead to some incredibly intense moments and set the tone for an amazing night.
But let’s face it. Sometimes it’s not always easy figuring out what the heck to say!
How do you start the conversation? How do you answer a question without ruining the mood? How do you get your partner to use their imagination and turn them on without even being in the same room as them?
They are all good questions, and to master the art of sexy texting and dirty talk, you need to start from the beginning.
Asking questions is the best way to get the party started.
Not only will you quickly get an idea of what your lover is in the mood for, you will get their imagination going and have them basically begin the conversation.
So if you say: “I’m bored. What do you want me to do to you later?”, the conversation could go in a million different directions depending on their mood.
If they say “cook me dinner” and don’t initiate the hot talk. Respond with saying “nevermind, maybe I’ll go out with my friends instead”. Watch how quickly they turn around and re-initiate the sex talk.
If they say “mmm, how about you start massaging my thighs and work your way up?”. Now it’s time to start having some fun!
You must make sure when you are answering questions to not cross the line and kill the mood. What is the line? Well, it’s different for everyone. Only you know your partner well enough to judge, but it’s safe to say that bringing up something hardcore or talking about something out-of-the-blue that has nothing to do with the situation should be avoided.
For best results …keep it simple.
Keep it exciting, and remember, sometimes less is more. That’s the best part about a text, you don’t REALLY know the exact intention. Which is why that question you originally asked “What do you want me to do to you later” doesn’t go into specifics and will have their thoughts spinning like a top!
The more you sext the better you will get. And the more you learn about dirty talk, the more exciting your sex life will become.
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Stay Sexy,
